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tissande is a village of letters to tomorrow. drop us a message — we read every one.
a question, a thought, a tip — anything.
frequently asked
because a handful of voices only tells you about a handful of lives. we've built the Tissande to stay quiet on purpose — no comment threads, no reply chains, no group-chat noise. just one parent's real reflection, read on its own, moderated before it's shared. 500 is our first real marker, not a finish line: researchers who study lived experience say that understanding how work and family collide across different regions, industries, and family situations takes a lot more voices than a single similar-minded group ever gives you. enough threads, from enough different lives, and the patterns stop being anecdotes and start being evidence — and we keep going from there.
based on research into qualitative data saturation — read more →
most of Tissande — reading, writing, asking a question — is anonymous. the one exception is "meet another parent," which needs a real name, since it leads to a real, live meetup.
a real person on the Tissande team reads every submission before it goes public. nothing is posted automatically, and nothing goes live without someone checking it first.
use the "i need support" door on the homepage. once it's reviewed, any parent can read it and answer, once their answer has been reviewed too.
head to the Tissandier and use "add a thread." it's reviewed the same way as everything else before it appears for other parents to find.
the short version: most of Tissande works anonymously and doesn't rely on tracking cookies. the full details are on our privacy & cookies page.